No, she's not the first butterfly-lady... but, yes she does have that effect on me, although I never really showed it until Sunday night. Here's the whole scoop:
I have this hot chick who works the front desk in my building, and she has been crazy flirting with me for several months.... I had been playing it extremely smooth... for instance, when she asked me a lot of questions... most of the time I wouldn't even answer I would just smile... I was doing the sexy mysterious guy thing... and she was so eating it up - she was like - you should come back and see me more often, we like visitors. (because I pay by the month and she wanted me to pay by the week) Oh yea... and last week - she said, you paying for a month... and I said, no - just one week. She said - oh no... are you leaving us - and I said, no... I want to pay by the week so that I can come back and see you sooner... and she said - AWWWW... that makes me feel so special. Her exact words.
Anyway... I called her up tonight... at the front desk... after I went down and paid my bill (I made sure I dressed up tonight, and she noticed) she seemed intimidated by me this time... as she wouldn't make eye contact with me like she usually tried to do... anyway - my plan was to compliment her in person... see how she took it, and then call her afterwards to further the move... well, we chatted a bit (in person) and I told her I thought she was adorable, and she seemed really coy (stroked her hair - you know the deal) and said thanks...
After I got back to my room, I waited about 30 minutes (only because she was getting off within an hour after I left - otherwise I would have waited longer) and then I called her. Well, the first thing I said, was - hey, what's up pretty girl. And, she seemed to like that... so then I (And, I don't know what possessed me to say this... as I've never (phrased it like this) to a girl I was trying to pick up... but the girl was just so in the palm of my hand... and I felt really confident, like I could say anything to her) so I said, do you like me? And she said, what do you mean? I said, are you attracted to me.... AND SHE SAID - I'M MARRIED!
DAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMN IT! I know I screwed this up... I put her on the spot, right? Look, I am nearly positive she is lying about being married... because check it, #1 she is very young, probably 19 or 20. #2 I've overheard her call someone her boyfriend on two separate occasions since I've been living in this building. Why is that important? Well, after she said she was married, I asked her how long she had been married, and she said 6 months. I asked, her - did you get married after I moved in? (she is the one who originally checked me in) and she said no. I've been living here for 5 months, so the timeline adds up so far... HOWEVER - the two times I overheard her call someone her boyfriend (not to me, of course - I heard her tell someone else) was obviously AFTER I moved in... which means - according to her... she was married at this time, and so why is she calling her HUSBAND her BOYFRIEND!? #3 SHE DOESN'T WEAR A WEDDING RING!
If she really is married, than there wouldn't be much of a problem... BUT I AM LIKE 90% sure she is lying about being married, and I just can't figure this out. Look... I know when a girl is in to me, and she has been coming on to me strong... so, worse case scenario, let's say she wasn't attracted to me, but didn't want to say that... she still could have answered my question by saying she had a boyfriend, because at least that would have been true!
So, what's up? You think maybe my question intimidated her? Did I put her on the spot too much? I know the girl is physically attracted to me... it's beyond obvious - and it's not surprising given the fact that virtually every girl I meet is physically attracted to me...
BUT UNFORTUNATELY... I only want the ones that I can't get...
...desperado...why don't you come to your senses...
