Nah..can't go there. I don't want a woman that can kick my ass. To each his own, I agree, but for me, big muscles and flat chests belong on guys. You can be fit without necessarily looking like Arnold Schwartzenegger. I like a soft, feminine woman, not one that looks like her name should be "Butch".
(Hah, choppes, "get bent"! Haven't heard that one in a while! You just gotta be from New Jersey..)