the good thing about women is, as Jonboy has said, once they've broken their hymen thru sex, theres no doubt of their status.
for us men, virginity is more of a state of mind.
is it cumming? I've fucked broads and not come (usually because of alcohol or opiates, sometimes because they just didnt do it for me), so did I not have sex with them? I think they'd say otherwise.
like said before, is someone still a virgin if they've only had gay sex?
I'd say, for the girl in this senario, shes still a technical virgin. but the male, if he feels he isnt a virgin, isnt.
now, if we're talking about this from a religious view, most major religions would say any form of sex is just that and they're no longer virgins. altho, Momrons are notorious for having anal sex as a 'loophole' to avoid hell.
as if God just forgot to add anal sex as a sin. he sould make a 2nd draft of that damn book...
anyway, if you (or whoever) thinks they arent a virgin? then you arent.
but if you still doubt it, go find some pussy. its not that hard to come across.
fingers crossed the OP comes back to elaborate on this tpoic.